Its Not Me, Its You
Welcome to It’s Not Me, It’s You — the unfiltered dating diaries of two single ladies trying to navigate the wild world of modern love in Dallas. From red flags and Hinge horror stories to unexpected sparks and soft launches gone wrong, Sami and Susan are spilling the tea, sharing the laughs, and maybe even learning a thing or two along the way. Whether you're deep in the dating trenches or just here for the drama, we’ve got you. Grab a drink—it's about to get personal.
Its Not Me, Its You
002 Texting Trouble: Don’t Catch Feelings in the Chat
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In this episode of The Rules Girl Handbook, Sami and Susie break down where most women unintentionally sabotage their power: texting. Inspired by the OG dating bible The Rules, they reveal how texting too much, too fast, can kill the mystery and create a fantasy relationship before the first date even happens.
You’ll learn why holding back isn’t playing games — it’s protecting your peace. From how long to wait before replying to what to say when he hits you with the classic “wyd?” text, they’ll teach you how to set the tone, keep your cool, and let him earn your attention.
Plus, the roleplay segment will have you laughing (and screenshotting for future use). Because let’s be real — texting is where the power play begins, and Rules Girls don’t chase.
Takeaway: Don’t give boyfriend energy to a man you haven’t even met yet.
👑 It’s not me.
💬 It’s you.